A Bombshell State of Mind

So you want to be a bombshell, and you're wondering what's stopping you. No matter what clothes you buy, how perfect your makeup is or how good you smell, you feel like something's missing. You look like a bombshell but you don't feel like a bombshell.

Well, it's also a mindset. Have you ever seen someone who on the surface doesn't seem all that put together but people are drawn to them? It's their mindset, it's how they interact with people. You don't have to be the loudest, most extroverted person in the room but we seem to forget how much charisma plays a part.

A true bombshell knows who she is and what she wants. She never feels swayed by trends unless they truly interest her, in fact she may even get to trends years later because she wanted to know if she truly liked it. A bombshell is neither behind trends or in front of them, rather she exists in a parallel time, doing only what pleases her.

A true bombshell knows life is meant to be enjoyed, not weighed down with concerns of aging and weight gain and appearing perfect 24/7. She knows an orgasm does just as much if not more for her skin as a 20 step Korean skincare routine. She doesn't miss out on life because she's afraid of getting fat or looking ugly. Instead she knows each pound is a trip to a new restaurant with her friends, a homecooked meal prepared by someone she loves, a late night snack run because she just had to have white macadamia nut cookies. There's no use in worrying about wrinkles, and having smooth plasticine skin so a "morning shed" routine is unneeded. A bonnet and silk sheets is her late night luxury.

A true bombshell knows it's all about her energy. If you find yourself receiving random love confessions on the street, it's because they sensed you. And I don't mean vulgar propositions, I mean men and women stopping to give sincere compliments, randomly getting flowers placed into your hands, children smiling and terribly whispering to their mothers that you're pretty. That's bombshell energy.

And most of all, a true bombshell knows that even on her worst days, when it feels like the sky is gloomy and nothing is going right, the beauty and love in her heart will shine through every time.